Are you living your life as a victim or a victor?
A victim is a person who has been attacked, cheated, destroyed, injured, oppressed or harmed by someone or something. A victim is someone who feels helpless and passive with misfortune, which can turn into anger and depression. Living your life through the lens of defeat and sadness.
A victor is a person who thinks like a winner, triumphant, defeats adversaries, conqueror of misfortune. A person who looks at the positive side of everything, overcomes obstacles. looks for better ways of doing things, sees all problems as opportunities to learn. One who is proactive in making things better. Being a victor allows you to be grateful, happy, healthier and seeing life through a positive lens.
We all have misfortunes, accidents, and loss, but it is what you do with it – that makes all the difference in how you experience your life. You can turn misfortune into a learning lesson and use that experience to make you stronger. It is your choice and your choice only, no matter your life’s position or where you are.
The first step is to identify what you are, a victim or a victor. Here are most of the red flags to help identify you as a victim: Anger, rage, anxiety, depression, hopelessness, negativity, jealousy, fears, worries, guilt, pain, addictions, judgemental, sadness, ailments and being destructive.
The second step is to decide if you want to do any healing to overcome your victim-hood? And if you are ready – you need to accept who you are, release your past by forgiving others and yourself. Forgiveness sets you free to figure out what qualities you want to become, so you can prioritize your plan, creating steps each day to get closer to your goals and dreams. Visualize yourself already there, being the person you want to be, doing the things you want to do and living your life to it’s fullest. Being a victor has so many rewards: happiness, inner peace, healthier life, success and abundance of life!
What do you choose? If you need any help to get to your desired goals, I would love the opportunity to help you. Give me a call for any questions you may have or to schedule your appointment. I hope to hear from you soon!
Vicki Harding C.Ht – Certified Clinical Hypnotherapist – Mind Coach
480-510-0781 ~ awakening101@yahoo.com ~ http://www.hypnosisinarizona.com